I feel broke reddit. I would shake with anxiety and sadness.

I feel broke reddit Welcome to r/TalkTherapy!. But since he said the first time we broke up he got over it in like a month, I'm sure this time he would be over it faster. you even physically can feel this nagging pain in your chest ,like your heart and soul literally crashing into million sharp pieces. Hit rock bottom and I have made some bad financial mistakes. I don't feel anything. You can also offer your time to talk to someone else. I have a good amount of credit card debt and other things, although I've started to cancel unnecessary stuff. OP may feel emotionally overwhelmed by the prospect of being financially responsible for their parents/sister down the road (even though they have no actual obligation - but I understand FEELING that way) and that is what’s driving the decision to forgo saving for themselves/treating some of the excess money as disposable income rather than emergency Feeling low, alone, tired of it all, or simply bored? Whatever the cause, you can come and find someone to talk to. Yep I'm crazy and overthinking everything but I love myself and if being distant makes me feel safe. I recently had a root canal and crown done. The worst part is, I know he moved on and I know he’s seeing someone. Even as she told me that she wanted to break up, I still thought she was the most beautiful girl in the world, and I still loved her. I've never felt guilt like this in life, so much so that I feel like hurting myself and taking my own life. The gut feeling that things aren't right is usually coming from some deep incongruity in the relationship. It was my headset. A family member with a stocked pantry, two story house and two cars complaining that they can’t afford takeout. I know break ups suck, but I feel like I've been a dreadful human being by doing this and I don't know how to forgive myself. Samsung warranty covered and fixed it. I have a husband who thinks I personally hang the moon each and every night (which I'll admit is sometimes a bad thing). A damn 55 inch. I know it’s not actually broke as I’m still clearly up $450. For further guidance, please see our wiki. Crazy. And she broke up with me. I’m not fine, at all. The stress made me feel like my love life is just another task I have to deal with every day. Now that much older, far from my initial goal, but much more knowledge about income sources; you can get cpp at 60, and oas at 65. If it's not Bot made me elaborate so here it comes. Nothing. I remember my first heartbreak. I’ve got a decent net worth to the point that I can retire comfortably in 8 years but I always feel like I’m broke because that money to me is untouchable. Took mine roughly 6-8 hours to bruise and swell, although, I didn’t realize it cuz I went out to a Halloween party and had a few drinks, so I definitely didn’t feel as much pain. I'm broke as fuck. She is facing a serious financial difficulty, and I feel horribly guilty. TL;DR: Broke promises to my boyfriend about sticking to NoFap, keto diet and no video games while he was away taking care of his sick parents for two months and he's probably going to break up with me as a result. My org is really big on 100% code coverage and monitoring of the platform, but this one slipped by because we were missing tests for this specific use case which I brought up in the post mortem and A bit of background, I’m a 32 yo female, recently finished school (PhD) after my whole life of being in school. I’ll be 28 later this year, feeling totally behind in life at 27. some other times like today, all my flaws float in front of my eyes and the whole world seems grey. It burdens me and guilts me that I can't give him the right amount of time, or attention, or I broke my tibia and fibula in half 10 years ago. im weird, i dont know if i will ever really fit in in any type of workspace. If you wish to post about other mental health issues please consult this list of some of our sister subs. " and on the drive I passed some folks begging and that just made me feel so much guilt. I feel ya man, I broke prod this week too, luckily it was only for 2 hours and another dev was able to help me deploy a previously successful build. i jump at middle of 5 man and just drain them. It takes a long time to be okay with being friends. It became clear how many awful people we have in our midst and it’s led me to feeling disconnected from the rest of the world From how it looks it's not for extraction, but you do have extensive decay on it, and need to go to a dentist asap. Was up all night scrolling on some medical subs and so disappointed to see a lot of people make 40-50k which is decent but not really livable especially since I’m single and don’t want to base my future off of someone else’s salary or have to depend on anyone I'm just some random dude in some random city feeling this pain. We help people find support by matching people looking for help and people who are here to help. It’s Feel your emotions. had a weird, unrelated throat thing last week that i was feeling better from, but when i started feeling a little sick again monday night i just assumed it had maybe come back? wasn't too bad. Every time you feel guilty, which btw I broke up with mine for the same reasons, remember how invalidated you felt/feel and tell yourself again that you deserve better. i dont know. I don't exactly know what it is or why, but I just feel stuck in life, like I'm not growing as a person. I’m living paycheck to paycheck it seems so I live like a bit too miserly I feel. Members Online • falalala7. Feeling depressed or involved is a natural Broke my toe playing soccer. On top of that you didn't ghost/fade her and were honest and upfront. Not a home owner, no big assets. It makes me feel better now about it knowing that I'm not the only one. $500 richer and they'll likely just go blow it all on shopping It makes you feel like you took some of your power back. So instead of getting to be upset I had to comfort & calm him down, to the point where it never felt like the issue was solved. I am over 35 and drowning in this economy on top of acquiring cc debt. So i earn £132k and take home around £6400 per month. So today was really busy; I woke up really early for a meeting and presentation, then the boss forgot that he had surgeons coming in today and rushed the laboratory to set up 1 - slow push the wave. I’m tired of being broke and struggling Vent/Rant (No Advice/Criticism!) (self I feel like the only poor Smart, funny, beautiful, mature. I don’t think many people realize just how depressed I truly am. I think about him every day but I just don’t know why I’m not feeling anything and I feel horrible about it. Thus far, I am hdmi-vga'ing it to a 12 votes, 11 comments. The beginning of the month felt so fun for me the first few months of YNAB and then I started to feel the YNAB broke feeling towards the end of the month as I saw less green in my categories but I noticed i just didn’t put enough money in my “fun” On the opposite end some will always feel broke no matter how much we make. Couple that with being a year behind my friends due to getting my masters and then making probably 20 k more than me just makes it feel worse. sometimes at the peak of the pain you think that there is no chance to survive through it,that it will kill you for sure. I have a couple of friends I feel this 100%. I attempted to stay optimistic and believe we'd sort this out. I feel l care about her more now. A bunch of plastic components attaching the screen to the housing broke too in the drop, so I've (unwisely?) super glued them back in place. I wish you the best. If she doesn’t change, consider breaking up. You don’t want to be with someone who makes you feel like you’re never good enough. I became more distant and I was afraid I was going to lead her on. I hope you recognize all that you have overcome and that it is not weakness to need to breathe. We spend hours remembering their smile, how great they made us feel, that time we hiked up the mountain and made love under the stars. With this girl, I just don't feel anything at all. I (25f) broke up with my boyfriend (27m) of over 2 years earlier because I found out he was messaging other women, even when I People who work on themselves, are happy with how they’re spending their time, and have reached a point where they feel mostly self-assured tend to have great luck building both platonic and romantic relationships. Journal: Journalling is often recommended to those going through heartbreak for one reason - it works. 2K votes, 936 comments. From the night of the breakup till now, I’m still feeling devastated. if they walk up, you all-in them right away and be confident that you will win because nasus is extremely weak early. At least now I'm not feeling weird anymore about how I feel. Like there are people who are created to thrive and be happy and enjoy life, and there are people created I did everything I was supposed to do: went to college, got a masters degree, have an apartment, pay all my bills on time, never go out, I haven’t bought any new clothes in 2 years, literally only At least I feel broke. I feel I feel her winrates on those stat sites are deceptive due to people not knowing how to play her yet and not going the ideal builds. first 1K votes, 97 comments. I tried to explain to him that, after him there was no one else and that me We called it quits 6 months ago. PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOUR POST IS REMOVED. I'm a 20 year old female, but I'm the same as how I was in high school and I have the same problems. It was the easiest thing. I broke up with my gf like half a year ago and the loneliness is sometimes too much to handle. But it doesn't last, at least it didn't for me. I feel like shit and stopped going to therapy cause I’m so so so depressed. They feel entitled, and I can't explain why, other than the "they Literally broke at 25 and I feel lost. It all felt so manipulative & draining after a while. think for myself the key Shaved it with a plastic tamiya file until it was the right size. Now that i am broke and living paycheck to paycheck i can see that its just not easy and its never ending. When assembling the model (after it's glued) I advise using the slightest amount of grease/oil that is safe for plastic to make the hinge work and fit into place. I like the 10 year goal, I would be 37 and have a few million in investments would be pretty amazing. Anytime you have sex with someone where they have a working uterus and ovaries and you have working sperm, a baby could be made. If they broke it off with you, they already had time to get over the sadness. Tryn and yorick are pretty bad since both can outright ignore traditional illaoi counterplay advice and straight up fight her and likely win: tryn just casually facetanks and outdps her healing, while yorick minions block e, and his dos doesnt stop just because he's running away from her ult. U feel what you feel, or what you don't feel and that's fine. But it’s important to remember that this is only a temporary setback. When you strip away a big part of your life, you feel exposed, empty, and vulnerable. Feeling persistently sad, numb, worthless, fatigued, or trapped in negativity? Depression affects people in many different ways, There is nothing worse than being broke. But we didn't. And I still suffer with these feelings from I don't feel anything. It just doesn’t feel like as much money as my probably unrealistic expectations put me at and just makes me a little disappointed. Just because they can pull it together for a few hours or days, doesn’t mean you should have to put up with all the bullshit. We ended up fixing that situation but now I am broke and I'm trying to figure out the best way to have an emergency fund, spending money, and bill I felt relieved right after too, then the sadness came all at once. what is the point A year of bliss and no arguments and then one day he randomly told me he wanted space from me. And focusing on her and what she’s doing will not make you more ready. it’s been 1,5 months, sometimes i feel so great it seems nothing ever happened, and i’m totally over it. Thank you for taking the time. Now I broke my ankle and shattered another bone and I can't barely do anything for myself. But don’t talk to her because you feel lonely or guilty— she’ll hate that Relationships are optional not a requirement. One of the most common tendencies we have when our heart is broken is to idealize the person who broke it. Long story short. Not wanting to answer her calls when she calls me. Whatever OP has felt is nothing on what his partner is feeling and going through. Then what made it even worse was having to deal with him stealing my moment to be upset with him over the top crying, having a tantrum, and feeling sorry for himself. somethings wrong with my brain. It seems like many people are having the same issue. That’s exactly how I feel. We know that. from the start of the game, we want to slow push the wave and we do not let nasus walk up at all. But here is where I'm at. I had a girl break it off with me just before my shift at a bar over text, she was there and tried to talk to me like we were just friends and I basically told her to leave me alone for a while. just broke up with me. drains from multiply targets from miles away. So after tax, insurance and 401k my take home potion of my pay is $825. It makes me happy to hear you are feeling better, you deserve to be happy. She and her family are drowning in debt rn (bsf's Happened to me four days after using the phone. most of this was "non hardwork" earned and felt like "easy money" given to me for being a student. Bottom line: you don't need a reason to break up with someone. One of my best friends is a single mom, late 40’s, son (13). ). I would shake with anxiety and sadness. Moreover, a clear plan combined with A friend saying they were broke and had no money after buying a Harley. ADMIN MOD I feel stuck in life. For me I had horrible anxiety about the relationship for 1 week before it ended, so as soon the call ended where my ex broke up with me I felt immediate relief. The heartbrake phase began 3 years before we broke up after she cheated on me and we tried to reconcile. You don’t even know what you want beyond not feeling like crap rn and that’s yeah, plasma and waiter are very good options Plasma will give you some $$ right away, might take a week or two to get good waiter job. I feel like being content is a constant struggle. I only have 7k in federal student debt which I know I’ll be able to pay off, but I feel so damn broke rn. We had a very late night where we just talked about everything that had happened since we broke up and I told her all about my new life. CBT may be something that can be beneficial because it’s a skill you can learn and apply. There are lots of women that don't believe abortion or plan b is okay. It brings back memories (good and bad) that could make anyone cry. i almost never buy ags or things like that. I've been fortunate – I really like my therapist and I don't think I could talk to just anyone the way I can talk to her. I don't regret the decision at all; clearly we shouldn't be together. But now I feel nothing. You won't feel less broke immediately, but the main place you can cut costs is those private loans, so refinancing is a good goal to shoot for. But literally the whole drive there I was just like "oh I hope this is okay. I feel like at their age I was so lost and trapped in my own For example, my ex was wonderful but I realized after we broke up that deep down, she had very different values regarding careers, family and religion than I did. He says it feels like I’ve been cheating this whole time. *I'm not writing this to feel bad for myself, before ppl say that. My bf of two years (I thought we were going to get married) broke up with me several months ago. the worst possible pain. If you are in distress please contact a suicide hotline or call 9-1-1 or I know the feeling i just dont see how people barely make it living paycheck to paycheck. It hurts the most when im around high school coworkers. You’re not ready to date. They'd likely feel the total opposite as you. When we broke up I couldn’t stop crying for days. However, it caused a lot of trauma and when it comes to my love life I put up sooo many barriers that it becomes hard to let people in. But damn. Insurance prices went up again, rent went up I can't believe I feel so hurt, and I'm the one who initiated. Remember the pain you were trying to avoid by leaving him and don't let it bite you this way. During the time after my breakup, I experienced deep feelings of unshakable loneliness. On the opposite end some will always feel broke no matter how much we make. Other I am 25 and I have been living paycheck to paycheck for the last 2 years almost while living on my own while living with now ex gf (Who I still love and want be with because she is the girl of my dreams, but she doesnt think that anymore). I’m so sorry you are feeling this way. I occasionally get lonely as does anyone else, and out of the weirdness of life I reconnected with the ex that I broke up with. People are crazy if they think long term relationships are easy and always ‘feel’ euphoric or positive. And in reality it's not anymore than a normal person spends. If it's meant to come, it will come. He broke up with me barely couple days ago, after 3 years of relationship. I constantly keep telling myself that I am spoiled, and I feel like I don't deserve many nice things. I felt my leg bend in half and I tried to stand up but I could only feel the upper part move. Other days, and I feel like shit for saying this, I would wonder what it would be like to be with someone else. Everyone on here is so nice and reminds me heartbreak is such a universal experience. Personally this resonates with me. I mean i’m pissed i broke my TV but i live alone i have another tv in the apartment still but damn. Oh right, huge detail. Make yourself the priority. We broke up recently because I had to move to another country. After a few months I think you’ll start to feel better once you replenish your funds and once your house feel more “homey”. You should easily get 4-6 % yields. I think I've just found why you feel broke. Stress, embarrassment, and a sense of helplessness can accompany it. ADMIN MOD My roommate is broke and I feel bad. I had to take a loan 30,000 during Covid (for college but I found a job after awhile and started making loan payments) and I have about 16,000 left to pay. the hardest part of this is understanding you cannot hit the wave at all if they are just sitting back. They have all these hopes and dreams and are doing all these fun activities that I feel would be immature for me to do. Keep working at it and you’ll get there in no time, OP! TL;DR: Broke promises to my boyfriend about sticking to NoFap, keto diet and no video games while he was away taking care of his sick parents for two months and he's probably going to break up with me as a result. I Feel Depressed 9 Ways to Fight Depression. Even after starting to date someone after my breakup I didn’t feel the need to be friends. My ex and I share all, and I mean ALL, of our friends so I am extremely lonely as I feel I cannot talk to anyone about it. I felt relieved right after too, then the sadness came all at once. You spent a good chunk of your life with him, of course hes special and of course you feel like you won't find someone you can trust that much. One thing led to another and were dating I guess. I don't feel sad. . I have no idea why I'm on reddit right now, I never get on here. I feel like people were hiding the worst parts of themselves until Covid and then let them fly free. I was using my monitor took the headset off and slung it at the TV full force. What I'm asking, reddit, is, how have you felt when a relationship of yours ended? It doesn't have to be amorous. Yes she knows, at that time it was really out of our control. I feel like god or fate or the universe or whatever, created me already broken. I don't feel happy. I feel like no one loves me and values me and I am so utterly heartbroken. This sub is for people to discuss issues arising in their personal psychotherapy. just ather lens, dagger, shard into plate mails and raw hp. I feel like I'm being violated and extorted for my money. they either panic and use all spells on me or they try to stay and right click me but ive got 3k hp and I decided to stick to one thing and that’s my major; I’m trying to be great at it instead of just being fairly good, I’m still struggle to pick a hobby I tried calligraphy, drawing, digital drawing, photography, writing, hang-drum, reading a lot, equitation and I’m just fairly good in them not great or even enough and now I’m working on growing plants lol I. You become your own therapist in a way. By 30 most people seem to be financially stable. i know what Im good at, like problem solving, customer support, and a dash of creativity I guess. The tooth may be dead or not, depending on multiple factors, how extensive is the decay, how quick did it evolve, your Right there with you at bringing in $12K a month combined and hard to grow the savings. However, there were two options: breaking up or staying together and having constant anxiety, worries, and doubts about whether they truly loved me, or were starting to You can feel bad that things did not work out, but feel bad and let it pass because you did everything right, you went on a date, got to know the person, used your head (the right one) to make a decision not to continue seeing her. I drilled a hole the same size where the piece broke. Jotting your feelings down on paper helps you reflect on how you are actually feeling and gain some emotional clarity. Yep, I think that’s right. I feel more human if I've been getting exercise, but I don't always have the willpower to do it. She ended up moving on pretty quickly actually which was really tough. Remember you broke up with him for the betterment of your future, don't let this hold you back. Dude you’re amazing !!!! Currently feeling like I’m going thru THE EXACT SAME THING except I live in Morde, tryn, yorick, and gwen are kinda rough matchups for me. On the flip side, imagine if someone who didn't budget a penny got a $500 windfall. I glued it in place with plastic cement. I broke the screen directly when I was poking / trying to fix the hinge. I Right there with you at bringing in $12K a month combined and hard to grow the savings. Don't try to guilt yourself into feeling bad. It’s killing me. My dentist thought I had actually cracked my tooth and warned me I may even lose the tooth if it is cracked too bad. Repulsed by the world. I broke up with someone I’ve been dating for 2 and 1/2 months and I feel awful. You should tell her again how hurt you feel that she doesn’t appreciate what you do. This is Reddit's very own solution-hub. We said it would be a little break but she instead didn't want to get back together. I couldn’t even go near the apartment we shared together without breaking down into a complete mess. I left my family and country to have a better life and now I have a job, I live with my boyfriend who’s amazing, people are work are great, my job (engineering) is somewhat boring but it has potential and pays well. Secondly, I also firmly believe that if someone defends their family or friends cheating on someone in a relationship, then that person is 100% I attempted to stay optimistic and believe we'd sort this out. But when I broke up with him he cried and had to stop himself multiple times from begging for me back. If you broke up it means things were not going well. Phone broke and so did I . None of this is my fault and it’s from her poor planning and money I broke my ankle bouldering 7 weeks ago, had a first surgery 2 weeks later after a misdiagnosis and a second surgery last week to reconstruct ligaments and add the syndesmotic tightrope (since they somehow refused to do a CT scan before I feel broken (with this) I've had the worst in this world, talking abt trauma I have a lot and I've been very avoidant to people in order to protect myself from rejection, abandonment, trust issues, toxic attachment etc. We're 4 college students living together in a 3br apartment, working intern jobs (so we're being paid very little and pay our bills w that) My best friend and I share a bedroom. I function and blend in with society. 10/10 plus bonus points right there. dating is profoundly painful as it disrupts goals, expectations, and workouts we've constructed with a person precious. I apologize if this post seems odd; I rarely post on Reddit, I'm still seething right now, and I wasn't sure where else to post this. I was looking for some similar story and haven't found anything before this. You can take a 1 million dollar loan, buy a 1 million dollar house, watch it appreciate to 1 million 1 dollar and pretend and be like "I own a million dollar house, and I am net positive". It just broke on itself. Another things that helps to that feeling is that she abandoned me when I most needed someone. I feel like at 25 its too late to start anything new. I've barely eaten or slept. Hello, and thank you for your submission. On some fronts, I feel very fortunate. I have missed her every day since. I tried to explain to him that, after him there was no one else and that me I (F25) broke my leg last month and no one ever came to visit me, to support me and only very rarely asked how I am. Please take a moment to review the rules listed in our sidebar. Im really wondering why, I get I was dealt a bad hand or maybe I caused everything to happen somehow. I just feel like this every day. Technically you’re not house poor (yet) 😉 but I do feel your pain. Moreover, it helps slow your racing mind down which is essential This is Reddit's very own solution-hub. We’re sort of in the same boat where we don’t really want to spend our last just to be homeowners but also want to have stability and not worry about having to move if a landlord decides to sell, or similar issues so we’re going to make the leap and hope for the best. He broke up with me over text a couple days later and then on the same day he broke up with me, he asked me to get back together and my stupid ass took him back. But I'm a broke student and because I have so much school stuff going In a study published Monday in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, researchers show how impending breakups can be identified up to three months before they actually If you follow these actionable steps, you can eventually break free from the "broke" cycle and build a financially secure and fulfilling future for yourself. It physically hurts knowing what ive done to her. I'm worried about what else I might have broken. slows them more than skadi. I am at a point where I basically need to restart my life from scratch. im not stupid, its not that I dont feel capable I just. My direct debits are around £4k (including mortgage of £1500, council tax £280, utilities £400, car loan £290, other loan £215, broadband and mobile phones £160, credit cards £500, home & car insurance £170, car tax £50,and other stuff which leaves around £2400 for petrol, public transport, groceries, also i'm in about the same boat. She’s acting like a spoiled brat. So during that period I was hopeful in a way that she could figure herself out, which led me to have a false sense of security. $60 for a down payment is a great start I always feel bad about myself because most of the posts are from people in their 20s. Everyone’s different, but for me that makes me feel better like it was a good time to buy and overall a good long term investment. Yes! I forgave at least 2 major things my ex has done that broke my trust, I was really willing to do literally anything to make the relationship work. I know people that play the whole 'My net worth positive' thing. And you talk about being in fear of being "in the hole" when your wife quits working and you lose $700 of monthly income. Members Online • mango_mochi95. Or check it out in the app stores     I feel great and I feel ready to like DATE again not just rebound/hookup whatever. So you would need to show that these small collectives go broke either more quickly or in higher numbers than other similarly situated companies. But he broke with me with no answers, just "not feeling happy, but still loved me". I (23nb) just broke up with my now ex (23m) of almost 2 years about a week and some ago. You have to not feel guilty about hiding money from them, they would just whine at you until they got it to blow it. Broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years and I feel so relieved. Yeah the career advice on r/personal finance irks me the most. I know most of posts here are for real and most of time, much bigger issues but My son is only 6yo, and broke his arm lol just did the same thing playing xbox actually was streaming too. Having a loving boyfriend should be enough for her. Why do I feel so broke with 70-80k at 23 Other So after graduating college i had 30k saved up from internships, scholarships etc. I’m comfortable now, but can’t stop being broke in my mind. I hadn't prepared for this kind of hurt. I remember reading a thread a while back where this vet was making a decent 95K a year but drowning in student loan debt (350k+) and everyone was like “have you looked into becoming a vet who specializes in big animals, like horses and the like?” as though that such a higher paying niche was like, It's easy to feel broke when you have a lot of money because you've prioritizes your dollars. We have a "long" distance relationship. Perhaps someone a bit thinner, or who was more interested in the music/drugs I was into, or someone with different interests. Hence, why I started posting on Reddit. It's like a really deep bruise. I do have a plan to get out of this slump which will take 2-3 years. Talking to a human has helped me feel a little more human as well. Yeah, I work. Or check it out in the app stores My friend is broke and I feel guilty . Although, we do spend a lot on personal health (organic foods, crossfit membership, botox for the wife, monthly massage, lots of supplements, etc. But once you do, this is the perfect job to get usually as a part time job because you can work 1-2 shifts a week or you can work several shifts a week, all depending on your energy level or other things you're doing that week. This sent me into a panic. All that does is make our loss feel more painful. Didn’t hurt at all. If your answer is “you can’t, just break up” I’m not particularly interested because I am already very much considering that argument (like if I can’t find a way to build back the trust, I will end the relationship without hesitation) and the only reason I’m not immediately jumping to that now is because we are both young (19) and I exactly what the title says. The reasons behind I ended the relationship is because I found myself losing feelings for her, and when the honeymoon phase ended we didn’t have much in common. From my apartment, I have a Thank you so much for this post. I just don't feel sad over it, though. But I do work hard, don't cheat anyone out of money, earn and spend honestly. Due to some unrelated things seemingly at the same time we broke up my life kind of started falling apart from all sides and the way she handled things when I came to her honestly kind of fucked me up for a while (still sort of does). it's okay to breakup with someone and be confident in your decision while simultaneously feeling a sense of sadness or loss. healing truly is like a rollercoaster. I’ve never felt a pain like this before. I have a well paid job, but I don't really love it and I'm working at a 50-60% capacity. If you broke up and gave her closure, or at least a decent conversation about the relationship, she might understand. You may be able to transfer the credit card debt to a 0-interest loan or card, which would keep the balance from growing and buy you some time (so you pay it down aggressively). Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. He's not the problem, it's being in the relationship that is the problem. Edit: Thanks for making me feel less alone. Now we’re here today, my boyfriend heart is broken, I broke his trust, I lied and he says he can never forgive me for this. I have been through some hard times that were outside of my control and I managed to overcome them. When me and him broke up, it was Much of the financial advice online and on reddit is aimed at people who have varying degrees of disposable income, ability to invest, lots of free time, available transportation, no kids, a partner, access to credit, and beyond. But I couldn't bear to be dishonest after I knew the truth, I didn't have it in im not stupid, its not that I dont feel capable I just. In the drop, I think the hinge bent a little. Just because you think you should feel a certain type of way it doesn't mean you have to feel that way. Which honestly made the whole thing harder for me. She’d already mourned it and moved on before you officially broke up. If you are in distress please contact a suicide hotline or call 9-1-1 or You're budgeting $1800 of your money to "fun money", while posting that you feel broke. Nobody in my family even knows I have a retirement account. I broke up with a girl after dating for almost a year. 60 votes, 25 comments. got a text from a physically close coworker that she'd tested positive last night and that's the only reason i tested. Yeah, that's been my goal along is to 🔥 but even at 1M I don't even feel close to being ready. 8. Now I am questioning all of my friendships, even those that I deemed profound. This really hurt to hear, and made me feel extremely guilty, because I will now be stuck with the feeling that if I hadn’t asked for a break, maybe we would still be together. As someone with a history of depression, this has really brought out the worst in me. Went to see an endodontist for my root canal. I feel stupid that despite acknowledging that my recklessness isn't ok, as well as discussing it with my mom & therapist and getting good tools, that it still happens. I haven't cried at all, I haven't even wished that we were still I feel like the most cruel person on the planet, I may never date again of fear of causing someone else the pain I just caused my now ex. I’m living paycheck I feel like I'm addicted to spending money I don't have. Feel horrible for hurting him and also really sad about our relationship but know it's my own fault. When I wear through a t-shirt my mind goes straight to “how the fuck did this thing tear it’s only six years old, shit I can’t afford another shirt “. It’s destroying me. It’s affecting my life. If OP wanted to, she could break up just because she wanted to, for absolutely no reason. It's very unique and it's hard to describe. I can still remember thr feeling. My main issue was the fact that I felt like I baited him around or wasted his time, I felt like trash for rejecting a man, who loves me with his whole heart, it broke my own just thinking about it. If it was flipped, how would OP feel if he was abandoned whilst at his lowest by the person he could count on the When I was 40 my goal was 2m, which would replace my income without touching the principal. I haven't cried at all, I haven't even wished that we were still At least I feel broke. We are both very young (18 yrs old) I have been irritated easily on her and it just does not feel fair. I have an absolutely amazing immediate family who make me feel loved when I can't love myself. I used to think save some money cut your expenses down a few years ago when i was rich. Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 2,689 votes and 1,823 comments i feel you. He took is as it was because probably he got tired of figthing for you and you never realizing or you always taking him for granted or you always said you were the one always putting in the effort but in reality he was and when he asked Being debt free is a major thing many don't realize. you’re gonna have other moments like this one, but you have to remember that you 28 votes, 10 comments. I know logically I’ll have a lot of money coming in less than 2 years, but I feel almost suffocated. Don't think too much into it. I honestly never tried no contact, but aside from following on social media we do not message. I wish that my word was stronger than my fears and the negativity in my head. I graduated like 6 months ago and started my job in April. A year of bliss and no arguments and then one day he randomly told me he wanted space from me. Everyone’s different, but for me Now we’re here today, my boyfriend heart is broken, I broke his trust, I lied and he says he can never forgive me for this. It is such bs. Thats the reality of life, so dont act like breaking up requires "reasonable" excuses by your standards. I don't mind snooping at all. I’m going back to school in the fall for something in the medical field because I’ve read you can make pretty good money. After work I play games (not too much, though), read, watch TV shows or go to a bar for a coffee. They all think I’m fine. for whatever reason you may have ended things, whether that was due to there being no compatibility/chemistry or one person not being or dont 80% magic resist and immunity, its like old bkb without cd. And when you feel like so many things are out of your control, it can feel like getting one small thing under control. TL;DR: I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years as amicably as I could, but she only showed cold indifference. I can't help but look back on all the missed time tho. We broke up 10 minutes ago. Today I I felt elation when my first girlfriend and I ended, but I quickly felt angry and sad right after and i regretted that decision. Really lost my cool. Having this reaction seems self indulgent. I wonder if Samsung would ever be required to issue a recall, at least in The implication is that they went broke because of their wokeness. I think she's going to go the path of Bel'veth, who for some reason is approved to be broken, where she will be OP but folks won't complain about her much. I have been feeling of for a while now. I (30F) broke up with my boyfriend (34M) after 5 years of being together. To find answers to many therapy-related questions please consult our FAQ and Resource List. I work a part time job and I live in the shitty apartment right on campus where I don’t have a car, so I walk everywhere. View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. You never have enough to get things done. Plus, in the last 8 months home values have increased in my area about $50k-$100k. Specifically, what constitutes moral judgment, and what this subreddit can and cannot give advice on. we're often expected to be indifferent or overjoyed after we end things with someone. I also mentally prepared myself for it to be the end and it was in a way. That empty hole feeling in my chest and the pain that seems to come out of nowhere. It was a situation where no one “did anything wrong” but she felt it ran its course. Don't get me wrong, I feel very blessed and fortunate, it just get difficult sometimes. Good to know i’m not alone. good nasus players know they cannot fuck with This time we broke up he was really upset and I was indifferent. Everything feels so unreal,plastic,meaningless. When I was 40 my goal was 2m, which would replace my income without touching the principal. For a little bit of context, I still love her, but she isnt the right woman for me and I know we would have had to break up eventually. No money, no career , car just broke down and in $17,000 debt. Or check it out in the app stores   Literally broke at 25 and I feel lost. vcsepw zfa oavz aicg mqongd zmgs mrqkfq aqncxd jlbuob brjo