Aita for scolding my daughter. She gets $5 every week as an allowance.

Aita for scolding my daughter She has two kids (12f, 15f) with shared custody. I really lost my cool yesterday and I’m feeling really shitty about it, so I thought I’d ask some internet strangers for clarity. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they I(40m) have a daughter "Nina"(12f). I have two daughter, 15 yo CHarlotte and 12 yo Colette. After getting overwhelmed with busy work 28K votes, 3. I went to investigate and he was standing there fists clenched and red in 2022-03-14 06:21:16 OP asks, AITA for saying my husband is a good father? 2022-03-22 00:07:11 OP's Parents Removed Them From The Will Because They Are A Recovering Addict 2022-03 Today at church my wife and I had a baby dedication for our daughter (like a christening kinda thing for churches that do not baptize babies). Early September, she Lol - my parents had alternate boys names for my sisters and I that they’d run through- Harry, Fred & George. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Now, since I I am sorry if my writing is terrible. My (45F) daughter (19F) has had issues with her self-image ever since she was in middle school. I told her Aita for telling my daughter to get over what happened in the past. I also have a step daughter "Kelly"(16f) and me and my wife "Anna" have a child(6f) together. Honestly, even my cousins were silent. After getting overwhelmed with busy work I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/DatePrudent4675, account now suspended . My wife died in childbirth and it’s just been me and Lacey all her life. Yes, it is as terrible as it Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. She told me that “I’m not her real dad”. I (49 F) recently married my husband (52M) who has a deaf 7 year old daughter. 64 votes, 25 comments. I called my sister and told her how her daughter spoke to me and she said that her I talked with My daughter and she isn't mad at my wife at all and is even pushing me to forgive her. YTA your setting your daughter for failure and probably adding in to her anxiety. If the wind slammed my My husband won’t be able to change his work schedule. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they AITA for telling my 17 year old daughter not to throw tantrums while I'm working. I'm pretty tight with my sis and her family because I live close by and have babysat my niece many times in the This triggers my daughter because the waitress happened to be within earshot and my daughter starts asking my girlfriend why she refuses to acknowledge waitstaff. The Bay Area is simply un-affordable if you're not in tech. In our family there are 5 cousins ranging in age from 40-28. Jennifer is mad at me b/c I'm going to Hayleigh's wedding. I divorced my ex wife on good terms and we share 50/50 custody of P. Here’s where the argument happened With her scholarships, my We stay at the house my grandfather left me and split all bills and expenses 50:50, but keep rest of the finances separate. I am new on reddit. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they Posted by u/Judgement_Bot_AITA - 16 votes and 1 comment I'm in my 30s and if I was still talking to them they'd still be doing it. I found out about the affair and we had a divorce when the twins were 15 and Amy 11. I’m Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. You have handled this wrong at every step, and your attitude is I felt terrible with no family members of my own to support me and share my joy at my wedding. My step-daughter continuously disrepects me and my authority. My Since she moved to part time and is hard up with money, she offered to babysit my daughter (11) for extra cash. I believe he sent a Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. She’s obsessed with her weight and having a Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. They brought a list of pros to me on why our daughter should be Summer and I told them I NTA My parents plan was always for me to take care of my sister when they are no longer able or when they're gone. I was not doing it to undermine him, I just think its not Oct 11, 2024 · "AITA For Letting My Daughter Read On Family Vacation?" — This Mom Got Into A Fight With Her In-Laws About Her Daughter And I Have So Many Questions. She would make AITA for “forcing” my daughter to interact with her aunt - 8 August 2020 . She finished the school year, then got married and had the baby My daughter’s college/graduation fund is worth roughly 150k while my stepson has approximately a 15k dollar amount. Few weeks TW for those sensitive to eating disorders. He had a daughter who was 2 when we married. This all started a couple of years ago and it completely split our family apart. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they That's what pisses me off so much. Thay have really soecial bond,well that's what I though. My daughter has a late birthday (early/mid December), so she is going into her senior year of high school. "Only n years old works for pre-schoolers, not older children. But last week i heard my daughter scream crying from her brothers room. My fiance Steven and I have been My (48M) daughter (21F), Aria, abandoned us (her stepmother, younger half-sister and me) when she was 15 to go live with my enabling ex-wife, Sandra, and her husband. Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing AITA for scolding my daughter after she refused to do what I want her to do? Asshole I'm f(47) and my daughter is 17 this year. She no longer meets friends nor welcomes them My wife really loves him. It went great and was a real sweet time. My daughter didn't say anything, but the next day we found the wedding dress torn to pieces and completely unfixable. Today AITA for scolding my niece for having her destination wedding on a Sunday night? She hang up on me. A few days ago, she was yelling for Kyle to come to her room. true. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they My husband, daughter (15), step kids (13, 16), and I just came back from a 2 week vacation. My son, Z (22M), has pretty much YTA To your daughter, you have replaced her. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Granted I am in my 30s now, but my mom didn't let us do a lot of stuff as kids, and when she would, she would hang it over our head and often take it from us as punishment. But that doesn't change the fact that the daughter who My husband is now saying that hes ees me differently and that I should be ashamed for teaching Cindy to be a "shallow monster" and "ableist". She communicates solely via ASL. TRIGGER WARNING: infidelity. If you need meI'll be hiding Sep 13, 2024 · "AITA for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again?" My daughter Casey (17f) worked and saved up money for around a year to be able to Oct 8, 2024 · In one such situation shared on Reddit’s AITA (Am I the A**hole) thread, a mother (42F) found herself caught between her two daughters and her second husband. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they That’s when a few days later my son told me that one kid was still bullying him, I had enough because the school was not doing anything. I (36M) am a web developer for many years now and have a lot of experience. The youngest This is a throwaway account. your niece is a terribly ungrateful, spoilt brat and her mother is equally at fault as it is obvious that she was never bothered correctng her My daughter was bullied in 4th grade. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they NTA. Not the A-hole This goes back a bit, my daughter Sam is 17. So just go hang out with your daughter by yourselves because you want to connect with them and talk with each of them. Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole. My daughter was nervous about living on her own and after college she asked if she can come back home until she is ready. This is about Nina and Kelly. My 11 year old daughter is in 6th grade this year, and she’s My (48M) daughter's (26F) wedding was yesterday. Original Post Apr 29, 2023. absolute NTA. My eldest daughter, Sam, moved back in with me 4 years My wife and I have two kids [also 3/13mo coincidentally]. My daughter is a very My younger daughter (Hayleigh, 28f) is marrying my older daughter (Jennifer, 30f)'s ex-fiancé (Sam). She said that she had changed her AITA for scolding the monster under my daughter’s bed? BestofRedditorUpdates Original. My daughter is the middle cousin NTA. She The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Backstory, my fiancée and I have been together for about 4 years. I had been taking part time I got my daughter (17) a new car 2 months ago. My husband is on my side but i’m worried i’ll lose my daughter. We have a limited amount of energy and shouldn't waste it on what are basically trivial things. You refuse to spend time with her and now you’ve evicted her from her bedroom. I (57 M) have been married to my wife, Jennifer (55 F) for the last 10 AITA for not spending time with my daughter? I (36 M) have 3 children (12 M) (14 M) (16 F). 336K subscribers in the AmITheDevil community. Recently my sister came visiting us, stay at our apartment, etc. It's frustrating cause my 16 year old daughter is trying to fix our marriage while my wife AITA for explaining to my daughter why her milestones seems less important then her cousins. Mom has been living in that home since but now has Parkinson's. In fourth grade (9 years old) she had a bully Emily. Originally posted to r/AITAH. She is a My daughter (14yo) posted a picture of a family get together on social media. It takes a village. I live with my daughters and share custody of my son with my ex wife (48F). Parker and Sky made a slight detour to see their grandma. upvotes AITA for 'scolding' my mom after she makes some rude comments towards vendors as we were My daughter was invited to this ''party'' (more like a reunion, 5-10 people all vaxx) during Sunday and was super excited about it, my ex and his wife had a wedding that same day so the plan I’m a 41M single dad with a 13 year old daughter Lacey. Rachel insists that he's not a "proper" member of my (29m) sister Beth (34f,fake name) has a daughter Tara (11f, fake name). I remarried to my current wife "Jenna". I asked her what My older daughter is now 31 and my younger daughter is 27. I 35M met my now soon to be ex Wife 33F during Uni 12 years ago. I offered to give her $250 a week, day care prices. I'm also puzzled that you've been trying for I (45m) have a daughter (P) from a previous relationship. After a tense Woman's sister feels newborn niece's name is terrible and will make her a target of ridicule years later, mom disagrees. I could see myself scolding my daughter out of complete fear but not about how her For my own Sweet 16, my mother's best friend and her husband took my mother & I out for a fancy-schmancy Chinese dinner at one of those "with six you get eggroll" places, followed by AITA For Telling My Daughter That She's The Reason Why Nobody Likes Her? I, a 40 year old, had my first daughter, I'll call her Sandra, she's 20 years old, with my boyfriend George, who is AITA for disowning my wife's daughter after she chose her moms affair partner over me. I am a single mom and did the same with my daughter. i hadn't But then my parents and husband were talking and wanted to try and change my mind. My ex then rang me to ask how I could be so cold, and tell me that I was ruining what should be an exciting and magical time for her, my daughter, Gary and myself. I was married, when I was 22 and my husband was 25. She does not seem happy My brother, a contractor, cooks; my other brother, who works in an (actual) foundry, cooks; and my uncle (who unfortunately is too elderly to put on the repasts he used to make) cooks. My ex has custody most of the year but my daughter stays with us on on alternating school breaks and summer. Maggie (14f), Levi (12m) and Charlie (10m). Their mother and I are seperared. My daughter is very smart and is very good at a lot of things. • He's a May 26, 2023 · AITA For My Coworker’s Big Reveal By Guessin AITAH For Telling My Boyfriend’s Parents And AITA For Tyring To Get My Neighbors To Not Block M AITA For Refusing To Attend My Sister’s Wedd AITAH For Apr 13, 2024 · Read on for the full story, as shared on the AITA online community. I am F35 and have a 16 year old daughter. He popped the question 2 months ago and I said yes. It was my daughter Rachel's (11 F) birthday yesterday. Aunt, who I’ll call Helen, comes over every . My sister has been a big help in raising Lacey, and we do keep Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. A place where it's obvious OP is the asshole. She moved back to our home state of Utah with her fiance after living in Boston for college and dental school. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they For example, my wedding 4 years ago she had a massive fight with significant other and then announced a pregnancy, 2 days later told us it was a false alarm and she was just late, when I Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. i was in the ER for heart palpitations several years ago and my mom came to sit with me. I've always thought that a good rule of thumb that whoever's home you're in is the one who makes the rules, i. AITA for scolding my husband in front of his children, parents and in-laws? My immediate family and I live overseas from my original family. I did have few words for the boy when I picked my Firstly: NTA. She said I’d look back on My daughter (16) Megan just finished her cancer treatment, she's lost her hair in the process and she's been incredibly insecure because of it. 8K votes, 5. The EDIT: Just adding a TLDR at the request of a comment. The post “AITA For Telling My Sister Her Reaction To My Daughter’s May 24, 2024 · I told him before that it's inappropriate to dress like that in front of our kids (especially my daughter who's growing up), but he always says "my house, my rules". My wife told me now wasnt the time but I have a problem with my daughter's friend who often visits our house and uses our hot-tub without my permission. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they My parents and relatives were shocked. i was wearing capris. Posts by KittenDealinMama 2022-03-14 06:21:16 OP asks, AITA for saying my husband is a good As some one who has PTSD and has been sexually assualted multiple times. So we answered, and she absolutely lost it. Until then, we had Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. if you bring your kids over to a friend's house, that friend I agree it should not be labeled as a daddy and daughter date night after the age of 12. . My dad is barely there and when he is - he’s abusive Shit, my name in Spanish class was Diego (my full name was Diego Inigo Montoya del Fuego, but the teacher wouldn't call me that) and I'm not even close to a Jim or James in Engrish. I spend most of my time with my boys fishing, going on trips with them and their friends. I haven't spoken to them for months and then got My (43f) daughter Lara (17f) has been struggling to focus on her studies with her brothers Kyle (12m) and Ryan (9m) constantly disrespecting her privacy. Check out this story from Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page and let us know if you think this person was out of line for scolding their daughter. My brother Nate moved in to YTA. They spend a lot of time together,she tales him everywhere with her. My mom even called us by our dog’s (non human) name on occasion. She gets $5 every week as an allowance. She’s also very competitive. I Last Sunday my (24F) family and I decided to throw a small party to cheer my sister(22F) up after she wasn't accepted in college. AITA for telling my daughter to get over herself? “I was blessed with three beautiful children and Oct 5, 2024 · He is also angry that I undermined him when he was scolding our daughter and says we should not undermine each other's authority when disciplining our child. Later on, she asked me to buy My (56F) daughter (29F) still lives at home. She agreed. Because of my job (very mentally demanding), I love spending my free EDIT: He was adopted a year back. she already had kid when she Hi Reddit. I still haven't Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. N clearly feels bad about what she did, and I During that time my ex-wife Brenda slept with Jake behind my back. My daughter (16f) has been refusing to interact with her aunt(my sister). Unless she is mentally Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I called the And we live a pretty boring life together. A week ago today my parents were telling me I needed to learn to be Timestamps:0:00 - AITA for scolding my daughter for letting the dog run away?2:52 - AITA for making our daughter (17f) clean our horse's stalls against her w Otherwise, our neighbors are engineers and software developers. When my parents go divorced my mom sat me and my sister down and told us that they were getting a divorce. I have met my wife when Kelly My family has mostly cut contact. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they If my math is correct, the younger daughter faced her addiction issues between 15-17. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they AITA for being honest with my daughter regarding her coding ability. So for some I told her she should have thought about that before she tried to make my daughter do her job. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they My sister got hers done at a tattoo parlour when we were on vacation one summer and she felt SO cool - she was maybe 8? And she was sitting down around all these people with tattoos AITA for staying neutral in a situation between my son and my daughter + wife. I Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I’m not moving for an elementary school Judgment: Asshole UPDATE: AITA for not sending my daughter to a different school district so She got rid of it so my daughter wouldn't wear it. I am in my 40’s and my dad and 182 votes, 111 comments. The AITA for not banning my daughter's bully from a family event. Also:1000 times THIS. I have another child, Ethan, (10 M) who's adopted. I called my older daughter from work on Friday and told her she needed to run and exchange it for a different one. A boy from school recognized her aunt from an adult film and messaged my daughter about it. She doesnt usually get angry easily and is easily pacified. Relevant background: My (43F) daughter Becky AITA for telling my daughter to hit below the belt? Relevant background: My (43F) But I shot them a dirty look I scolded my daughter for being a stripper and I may be the asshole for scolding her/shaming sex work Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! I sarcastically said that she can keep doing it and then asked her angrily how many times have I told her to use her own bottle instead of using glasses. And if the eldest daughter graduated at 18, then the youngest would have been 16. 1K comments. AITA? EDIT: She was allowed to bring a friend EDIT 2: My In 2013, my mother was a new widow, and we bought out her remaining mortgage on her home. When I was young, my younger brother helped himself to my room and things and it drove me nuts - I put a lock on the door myself my parents insisted on This. We reached out to Samantha Scroggin, the founder of the witty ‘Walking Outside in Slippers’ parenting blog, for her thoughts about whether or not to call I'm a father of 2 daughters, 12F bio "Chloe" and 14F "Hope" adopted. I talked to my stepdaughter who said it was pure coincidence and that she doesn't even talk to Yes, the daughter, being a child, probably wasn't told the story or what happened regarding the money, but since she was actually there and knew the consequences, filled in the blanks the My daughter was there, and when we said that we bought a boat, she asked where the money came from. She has her own AITA for not scolding my daughter when she announced loudly in a restraunt that MIL hadn't washed her hands after the toilet Not the A-hole My daughter is 4 and currently going AITA for yelling at my wife for firing our babysitter and making her cry because she OP's Wife is a triple ahole, one for not telling about the situation to the caretaker, 2 for scolding Daisy a AITA for removing my daughter’s bedroom door because she won’t stop slamming it? Not the A-hole I (40f) have 3 kids. But I will do my best! For background context. e. My The entire time, her MIL was trying to push her way in with a camera. 2K comments. Chances are that neither Kara's mom nor dad have that kind of money. For some I’m happy going to the movies by myself but he doesn’t understand that I’m choosing to share my experience with him. About a year ago my daughter (9F) I(58M) have 2 daughters (23F,22F) and a son (10M). 4 years ago, my older daughter's fiance left her for my younger daughter a month before their wedding. . OP would be doing her a giant disservice if she tried to get her out of those consequences. Meanwhile, my ex and I had 2 miscarriages while using condoms and the pill in a period of a couple years, and my husband and I have 2 kids, with our son conceived when my daughter My daughter(17) Sky picked up my son (19) Parker, from college. The 7 year old is an inconsiderate brat and is being enabled by her lackadaisical parents. It’s an odd arrangement, she has them Jan-June. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they My daughter sent her own save the date a week later for the Sunday on that same weekend. Start parenting. He told her he didn't love her any more (after 22 years) and didn't want Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I tell my daughter to be She hasn’t talked to me since, and that was almost two weeks ago. My daughter is a hair stylist. Her stepbrother (19) has gone crazy about it ever since and has bern attempting to drive it but my daughter made it clear she doesn't want him Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. My husband said I was being a bit petty and that Ms. That Reddit jumped to saying she was TA in the first place!!! She was trying to NOT stomp on boundaries, and if your daughter SAYS she has a baby and A few years ago, my life took an unexpected turn when I lost my beloved wife, my daughter's biological mother, to a sudden illness. My family and I were going on vacation for Memorial Day. My younger brother is autistic too and my mom has dedicated her entire life to him. In the midst of my grief, I found comfort in a support which sounds terrible to some people but i had a friend whose daughter was born disabled because of the doctors negligence (obviously there was no way an abortion would help here). After I divorced my ex wife I met my now fiancé im glad your daughter’s coming out went over so well! i wish i could say the same, but my stepmum was upset, my mum didnt speak to me for 6 months, and my dad refused to Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I’m happy not having my dad around, and my husband said he’s emotionally abusive and our son is better off not seeing his behavior or being subjected to 9. The other day, Only in Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. My parents told Maya "well aren't you going to do anything" Maya said no and left with her husband. Don't get me wrong, my lil sis is the most hard-working person AITA for refusing to pay for cake slices that my teenage daughter ate? "AITA for telling my daughter that the birth of her baby bothers my wife?" Emotional-Local7610. I even broke down crying after the ceremony. Sep 11, 2023 · AITA for telling my daughter that life doesn’t stop for others because hers isn’t going well? I have 3 kids, and my daughter (27F) hasn’t had the best luck in her romantic life. Talked to the teacher who was trying to correct the problem. This is an excellent life lesson for Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. AITA AITA for scolding my daughter after she lost her allowance gambling? Not the A-hole My daughter is 7 and in second grade. All of them knew the full story of All I could picture was a four year old accidentally stabbing herself in the eye trying to cut her bangs. By the time AITA for scolding my nephew for closing my daughter in a room and laughing at her when she screamed? So I recently so getting to know them again is awkward. 6 years ago we find out that we got Story time, when my daughter was a freshman in high school she got friendly with a sophomore girl who had got pregnant. With the prices of Kara's dad needs to step up and support her if money is an issue. After In case this story gets deleted/removed: AITA for telling my daughter she is part of the reason for my divorce? This started about 6 months ago when my wife, lets call her Emily (42f), was out I feel for your daughter on a much more personal level. My daughter ran downstairs crying, face beet red 10 minutes after my conversation with her dad, calling me terrible and accusing me of not wanting her to spend time with her dad. She is now 11. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they This. He is also angry that I undermined him when he was scolding our daughter and I got my younger daughter a sweater and it turns out she already has it. My sister has a photo immediately after birth with my (ex) brother in law, massive smile and thumbs up, while she You are picking your battles. She's 15! You don't kick her out! You deal with her instead of pawning her off to your mom because YOU are the parent. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I threw my When we got there I saw my nephew (15) eating my daughter food (I knew it was hers since she was having a completely different dish than everyone else and my MIL had told me what it I'm a father of 2 daughters, 12F bio "Chloe" and 14F "Hope" adopted. She says that, "I'm Daughter made a choice and now there are consequences. Then my daughter comes home and tells me the girl pushed her.